Not worrying about other people’s opinion can be easier said than done.
There is so much going on and other worries in people’s head, why would we add unnecessary negativity to ourselves?
Sometimes as humans it is hard enough for us to make decisions on our own, adding other people’s thoughts to decide what you are going to do just makes decision making that much harder.
The stress you had to yourself by listening to other people’s opinion
I do not mean never listening to others.
Listening to others that you care about or one you ask for advice to is important.
While, this listening can be important, I am more so talking about not listening to the negative talk people have about you or a decision you make.
People’s brains add enough stress to themselves as it is.
Do not add the stress of the negativity people bring on you by listening to it.
Getting through your day is so much easier
There can much a person goes through in a day as it is, adding irrelevant opinions about you can make your day that much harder.
There is a point in everyones lives where they seem to hyper focus on other people’s opinion.
I believe everyone is guilty of this including myself.
I remember how much harder and exhausting my days were when I made majority of my decisions based off what others thought.
There is now a weight taken off of me since I have stopped caring personally.
Even though this can be time consuming to learn, this is a beautiful and amazing idea for everyone to do.
Decision making
Making decisions can be extremely difficult.
Your brain is giving you the positives and negatives of each choice you are deciding between.
It can be hard enough to decide what side of your brain you should listen to, but adding others opinions to the matter makes it even harder.
You will continue to hear the several back and forth thoughts in your brain, and now you have added everyone else’s thoughts and opinions.
I cannot be the only person that it takes all day to make a decision, but once I was able to let go of other’s opinions it only takes me about a half day now.
On a real note though, other people’s opinions makes decision making 100% more difficult.
How to keep other people’s opinions away
Of course you can never completely rid yourself of others opinions, but there are ways to make avoiding them easier.
Remind yourself that every decision you make should be for you only.
Remember that you need to please you.
There are way too many other people for you to try to please everyone, and you will never please everyone.
Try to remember what you appreciate about yourself.
Remembering what makes you happy in yourself will help you in the long run.
Not only will it make you feel more positive and secure in yourself, but it will also help you to not focus on the negativity in other people’s eyes.
Conclusion
Although it can be easier said than done, letting go of others thoughts is a significant trait to learn.
This will help you in the long run with learning more about yourself and pleasing yourself.
Not worrying about other people’s opinions makes your life easier and helps you develop more self-love.