You may have fallen victim to your first criminal offense.
You may feel like the majority of your world is crashing around you.
That’s normal, your next steps at redemption are ahead of you.
For example, maybe you’ve wound up in your first DUI situation.
Thankfully no one was hurt, but the guilt of your decision feels like a burden.
Authorities will take you to jail and in that moment you feel trapped.
The next day you are released awaiting your upcoming sentence.
Life from now on will change drastically, you will carry that responsibility.
However, I believe the most important thing of all is remembering who loves you.
It’s important to remember whose got your back and wants you to change.
Some of those in your life may not have your best interests at heart.
Your first criminal offense can open a door of emotions in your life.
Your loved ones feel disappointed in you and your friends feel let down too.
Some may attack you with judgements and belittle your life choices.
When my first incident happened, I truly learned the meaning of trust.
I am blessed to experience great amounts of loyalty every day in my life.
A good amount of my friends are some people I look up to.
They’ve taught me about myself and have helped me find my potential.
That hasn’t been the case for everyone.
I was talked down to a lot, I was told I would always be a drinker.
Some people viewed me as irresponsible.
Some of those took advantage of my kindness
I was vulnerable and had no idea who I could call my real friends.
A mistake you make does not define who you are.
We are all in control of our own destiny.
That is made possible by the efforts you act on to change.
I was never alone, I was lifted up with an army of support.
Granted they were harsh on me especially when I lost my motivation.
However, I learned the value of spending my time with the right people.
I was able to maintain trust with those who wanted to push me.
I was able to trust those who wanted the best out of me, not to backtrack.
If you seek change after incarceration, spend time with people who build you up.
Center yourself with peers who challenge you, who do nothing but bring out your best.
You probably feel vulnerable after your time incarcerated.
Do not alienate yourself into making another mistake.
Accept the help given, let your peers encourage you.
You have a long probation period ahead of you.
It’s good to have encouragement along the way.
Never stop believing in yourself too.
The right amount of change can get you miles in life.
You are still capable of a good life, a good family.
Maybe even the job of your dreams, the potential is out there.
Put the right people in your corner and you’ll find success.